In the character analysis of the 12 signs of the Zodiac, Taurus is often labeled as “solid and stable, loyal and reliable”. They do things down-to-earth, treat feelings seriously and responsible, in the eyes of friends and lovers, is the existence of can be relied upon. Taurus like a stable life, do not easily change, the pursuit of a long-term sustainable happiness.
But not every constellation can appreciate Taurus this kind of slow and do not love change character. Especially some lively, adventurous, jumpy thinking of the constellation, often feel puzzled by the Taurus, or even think “they are too difficult to understand”.
Among them, ** Sagittarius, Aquarius and Gemini ** is the most likely and Taurus produce “personality conflict” of the three signs. Why are these three constellations and Taurus incompatible? Let’s take a look at the difference in thinking between them, perhaps you will find that the problem is not who is right and who is wrong, but simply “not in a channel.
01 SAGITTARIUS: Free souls and steady oxen, the frequency is completely wrong!
Sagittarius is a born traveler, independent personality, love freedom. They are eager to constantly explore new areas and do not like to be constrained. They may feel that repeating the same lifestyle every day is like going to jail.
Taurus is just the opposite, they have a strong sense of inner security, do not like too many unknown changes in life. They prefer to choose a stable job, a solid relationship, or even a familiar restaurant to eat for a lifetime.
This kind of “you want to fly, I want to be stable” difference, so Sagittarius is difficult to understand the philosophy of life of the Taurus. They often say to the Taurus, “Life should be more experimental, why do you always stay in the comfort zone?”
The Taurus, on the other hand, will feel that the Sagittarius is simply unreliable, always changing goals and not knowing what being down-to-earth is all about.
The result is that the shooter feels Taurus “conservative and uninteresting”, Taurus feels the shooter “impetuous and no qualitative”, these two people once too close, it is easy to dislike each other, each other do not see eye.
02 Aquarius: Idealist and realist collision
Aquarius is known for thinking out of the box, and is the most “futuristic” one of the 12 constellations. They do not like to follow the rules, often put forward a variety of novel ideas, new technology, new ideas have a natural curiosity.
Taurus is a down-to-earth realist. They will weigh the pros and cons before making a decision, and are not likely to try to take risks on a whim.
The Aquarius will find the Taurus too pragmatic and unorthodox, and sometimes they even think the Taurus is too “old-fashioned”, and everything is about cost and return. For example, the Taurus may say, “Why do we need to change the system we are using now?” The Aquarius thinks, “How do we know if the new thing is better unless we try it?”
At this point, the Aquarian will feel that the Taurus “doesn’t know how to innovate,” while the Taurus will feel that the Aquarian is “unrealistic.”
The differences between them are not only reflected in their lifestyles, but also in the way they deal with their emotions. The Taurus prefers a stable, committed relationship, while the Aquarian is more interested in spiritual connection and free space. This makes it difficult to establish a long-term, stable emotional link between the two.
03 Gemini: Flexible and talkative versus slow and calm, one shot and two halves.
If the Aquarius is an inventor at the forefront of the times, then Gemini is always changing the wind. Gemini good communication, thinking jump, love to talk and love to laugh, is the active member of the party of friends. They love to try different experiences and seek excitement and variety in their lives.
But Taurus to this “constantly switching channels” behavior is completely incomprehensible. They like to do their own thing quietly, rhythmic planning of life and work, for the changeable twins, often can not keep pace.
Taurus people usually do not talk much, think slower, more concerned about the depth and value of the content. The Gemini focuses on the “speed” and “fun” of communication, and doesn’t care much about depth.
Therefore, Gemini may think that the Taurus response is slow, boring, not willing to cooperate with their own enthusiasm; while the Taurus think that Gemini talk too much, too jumpy, no focus, let a person headache.
What’s more, Gemini has a flexible mind and often changes its mind on the fly, which is a “big no-no” in the eyes of the Taurus, and triggers a strong sense of uneasiness in them.
The root of personality differences lies in the “rhythm” and “direction”.
Why do Sagittarius, Aquarius and Gemini always have trouble with Taurus? The answer is very simple – they have different rhythms and values.
- Sagittarius pursues change and freedom, Taurus insists on stability and security;
- Aquarius pursues innovation and ideal, Taurus insists on practicality and reality;
- Gemini pursues diversity and excitement, Taurus insists on specialization and stability.
The three have essential differences in the way they look at life, deal with problems and express their emotions. Not who is right and who is wrong, but each other’s “setting” is not the same.
Just as a person who likes to explore the outdoors, it is difficult to understand a person who is willing to read books at home in the “enjoyment” of what; and vice versa, a down-to-earth life, can not understand why the other side is always tossing and turning.
Can we get along? The key is to understand each other.
Although there are many points of friction between Taurus and Sagittarius, Aquarius and Gemini, it does not mean that they are destined to become friends or lovers.
The key lies in whether both parties are willing to understand and respect each other’s differences. If the Sagittarius can understand the Taurus behind the unchanging is actually the pursuit of security in life; Aquarius can respect the Taurus in real life perseverance; Gemini can accept the Taurus of the slow pace and steady way, then the conflict between the two can be greatly reduced.
Sometimes, it is the differences in personality that make relationships more interesting and diverse. As long as each other is willing to take a step back and tolerate some, perhaps unexpected sparks can be rubbed out.
Summary:
Taurus’s steady, down-to-earth, is their strengths, but also the other signs of the zodiac is difficult to understand the place. Sagittarius, Aquarius and Gemini these three constellations, although the character and the Taurus is the opposite, but it does not mean that you can not get along well. As long as you put down your prejudices and are willing to think differently, you can actually find a rhythm to get along with each other.
Therefore, instead of dwelling on “why do not understand me”, try to “understand each other”. This is the real mature horoscope communication way.
